Long Distance Relationship Advice

I met the most amazing person when I was 13. I was never “”officially introduced” but he knew me and I knew him, since he was a friend of my brothers. We never spoke to one another. However, my brother would tell me that he (his friend that I like) likes me. MY BROTHER told me this, therefore I thought he was lying and still think so…he may have said it to mess with me. They lost touch, so I never saw him again. I had him as a friend on Mysapce but only chatted once and than we lost touch. But ever since I was 13 (now 18) and saw him, I have liked him with complete passion. I wish to get bak in touch with him and tell him how I strongly feel about him. Would this freak him out?Should I first be his friend and than tell him or not at all? How would you react?

Tell me how the water feels before a sugar…?

remember water refers to boy and sugar as a girl…

is love means the saturation of water and sugar…?

I have developed feelings for one of my guy friends. Honestly, I feel that I have a good chance. I just wanted another opinion on whether or not I should tell him how I feel.

I just met him in Oct. or so, at school. Before school, we talk at my locker periodically. After class, he always wants me to wait up after class to walk to our next class. If I see him in the hallway, he either walks up and says hey or walk up and give me a high-five or something. I can freely talk to him for hours; there’s no awkwardness at all. I saw him at a convention, and we ended up walking around together until we found a mutual friend. I don’t remember how we got on the topic of real friends, but he stated that we are most definitely friends and put his arm around me. Later, he said “I stand up for my friends, like *my name*.”

In just a few months, we’ve become quite close. Mostly because I’m unique to him. We have a lot in common, which he claims that he doesn’t know any girls that are as cool as me. In fact, he was surprised when I told him that I’m a gamer, then told me that I am his best friend. But I don’t really know if he meant that. I’m trying to avoid being “one of the guys”.

Also, in November, I went skating with some friends and him. Now I arrived late, when everyone was in the rink. I’m not too good at skating, so I stayed near the wall. A few of my guy friends saw me and said hi, but when this guy saw me, he volunteered to help me. And he doesn’t seem like he minds helping me with schoolwork either or anything for that matter.

Anyway, that’s my friendship with this guy. I’m going to invite him to go see a movie with me. But I’m wondering if I should tell him how I feel? And guys, if one of your good girl friends told you that she liked you, how would react?

I was “with” this guy for about a month when out of nowhere he went completely M.I.A for two weeks…then he contacted me apologizing, saying that things were moving too quickly and he didn’t want to get hurt so he tried to just cut it all off between us, BUT that he also needed to tell me something but that it had to be in person. So…about a month later we saw each other out and he proceeded to tell me..”you’re too good for me”…that he’s not normally the jealous type but that he felt that with me. Now I am signed with a modeling agency and do stuff like that on the side but its not my “career”..and he claims he wants me too bad and that’s why he thought not being together was the best choice for both of us because “he’s a nobody” and I “need to be with a model” umm ***?! So after this whole talk…literally seconds later, he grabbed my hand and proceeded to kiss me the rest of the night. THEN asked me to dinner the following Tuesday…which he blew me off for. THEN contacted me on that Thursday saying how he saw a poster of me and that now I should “understand” why he says the things that he does…we then (not purposely) ran into each other that same night…said HI and what not and then when he was leaving he grabbed my face and kissed me AGAIN! in public in front of everyone. So do I believe this guy is maybe insecure (I do know his ex cheated on him) and try to work on things…or do I just forget about it and delete him?!

I’m interested to see what the guys will say. But you too girls, when was the last time you cried and why? Last time I cried was like an hour ago when I was frying an egg and the hot oil started spitting at me :’( lol. What about you?

We had been together for a year. I was out of town for couple days and when I got back home I called him to meet up (just as we said we would), but he didn’t answer my calls. I called him many times for a few days and he never answered, so I didn’t call him anymore and just thought he had decided to disappear since he was going through a very difficult time at home, and I accepted things that way. 3 weeks later I found out he was now dating my roommate! and I found some letter he wrote to her saying he was really hurt for what I had done and I was basically a bitch. I never understood what he meant with that, cos I never cheated or anything! I was so in love! I guess she probably lied to him bout me and told him some pretty bad sh**. I moved out of that place and I’m living thnds miles away now, changed my number, email and tried to forget about it. I never tried to talk to him again. Its been 7 months and I feel I need to know what really happened cause he was really important to me and I really loved the guy (its not like I wanna get back together). I’d just like to clear things up and finally close this chapter of my life. I know they broke up badly 4 months ago so he’s probably in a better mood to talk to me even though he might not like me at all for whatever she must have said bout me. Should I just call him and try to talk?

This may seem like a weird question, but some of the buildings on my campus are really hot at the beginning of the fall and end of the spring semesters when the weather is still warm. If you sit in those buildings for more than a few minutes, you will probably break into a sweat. I have been with guys I liked or was interested in during those times and I know I was starting to perspire because it was so unbearably hot-not obscenely so, but I know my face was definitely shiny. In fact, one guy even commented “wow you look really hot”, but he was sweating too. He is attracted to me, but definitely did not seem too bothered by it even though it made me feel self-conscious. Is it a dumb thing to worry about-are guys bothered by things like perspiration in hot weather? Or is it one of those dumb things that girls are overly self-conscious about, because I know other girls feel the same way I do on the matter.

When us girls talk to you do you like being touched liked that? I don’t want to do it to the guy I like until I am sure!

And then this girl commented on it hope you mean in a good way aha aha .. As soon as I read that I wanted to claw out his eyes with a pitchfork please help me before I might over react

Long story short I kissed an old friend back in March after being married for two years and with him for a total of 6. Since then my husband and I have been fighting and he has tried and tried and I basically pushed myself away and was living the single life, only not sleeping around with tons of men. I moved out in Oct because he said either I leave or he will and we own a house so I moved in with my sister. I recently discovered on Christmas day he slept with his ex who he has a 7yr old son with. I confronted him and he said it was a mistake he never meant to hurt me and he thought we were over and what he did with her meant nothing an dhe loves me. It hurt so bad becuase excuse my words but she is a #*#!** and I always was scared of her trying to get to him well she suceeded. My question is, is it even possible to fix our marriage knowing I have to see her and deal with her for the rest of my life knowing she had him? I felt she took something away from what we had. I know he doesn’t care for her but he was so vulnerable and weak and he did it, but it hurts that he would do what he did. I know I hurt him for the past 10 months but this is by far the worst thing he could have done. I’ve been numb for months towards him and now I’m finallhy feeling like I ruined what we had, but I’m worried I will never be able to get passed him and her together. Please tell me what you think..