Reader Question About Dating Younger Women

2009
09.05

The dating younger men posts have a significant number of readers chiming in on their thoughts, so it was only a matter of time before a male reader asked about dating younger women in response. This comment was originally posted in the dating younger men blog thread, but I’ve moved it here because, to me, its a whole different conversation and deserves its own response.

Bryan asks: “Since this thread seems to be only women responses I would like to ask all of you for your opinions positive or negative. I am a 53 year old recently divorced man getting back in the dating game. My problem is I can easily pass for being in my late 30′s. I am fit, toned and dress younger than most men in their 50′s. Honestly, I don’t feel much different than I did when I was 30, and younger women are attracted to me. Should I start dating younger women? What happens when they find my true age? I find myself resenting having a number placed on my back by society. I really don’t know how to get older, and am confused by all this. I am attracted to younger women because I still have the vigor and attitude of a younger man. Am I an old fool? Thanks in advance.”

I’ve got a personal take on this question, which I’ve answered in Dating Younger Women. But what you do think readers? Is it possible for this man to start dating younger women? Why or why not?

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